>>4347547Thanks for caring.
It's complicated though.
He and his gf broke up. She says he was abusive. Physically. I believed her. It isn't a stretch to believe.
I decided to remain friends (just friends) with her instead of him.
None of my circle likes him.
My gf actively hates him.
He and I never had any bad blood.
But if I rekindled, the optics would be either that I'm accepting abusive tendencies, bringing around someone nobody else in my circle likes, or have to put conditions and limitations on how and where and when and with who he and I can hang out, and that's just not fair to anyone.
I did check in a year or so ago as I saw a car that looked identical to one I know he drives totaled on the highway and wanted to make sure he was okay.
It wasn't him but he sounded like he appreciated the concern.
Nophoto blogpost over, sorry. I just think about him a lot, we were friends for a long time before all this shit happened.
He probably browses, but not this board.
Here is a phone snapshit from a simpler time many years ago when we were going to meets fairly often. I think this is before I blew up my #3 cylinder trying to race an Evo on the way out (lmao).
If he sees this he will certainly recognize me.
I wish things were different and I don't know how to fix it.
