>>14382923people who get groomed don't think anything is wrong. That's what's hard about being a grooming victim. If it wasn't Finn and it was someone like Saraya's mom grooming her, People would be freaking out that she had an intimate relationship with an adult while she was a minor. I don't think Finn groomed her, but it raises some eyebrows when she said she had an intimate relationship with her trainer, who she met while she was underaged.