>>9689356You are explaining yourself poorly and I am trying my best to interpret your ESL ramblings. The Mirai post was linked first in my post, and therefore could easily have been referred to "the top one".
>the correct oneThere is no correct one. They are both improper uses of the word "to".
If you are not defending the Mirai post, then you must believe that *this* post
>>9688936has correct grammar, which it does not. There is no such phrase as "trying to hard".