>>16099332"you need to be fit and tall to even have a chance" is unironically the worst thing to happen to men in the dating scene because it is so blatantly, provably false.
A fat, confident manlet will have a much better chance at keeping a woman than an awkward chad. Autism/awkwardness/lack of confidence is a deal-breaker no matter how attractive/rich you are. It is the biggest woman repellent.