Take it from me, an overweight completely disgusting guy. There is nothing difficult about getting pussy or long term relationships. I'm one of the most autistic, schizophrenic, poor health men you will ever meet and I've never had issues getting women. I used to run a bot on Reddit that would mass email women on all the Gone Wild sub-Reddits the same message and then from the replies I got I would pick which ones I'm interested in and then go from there. Before Only Fans turned every girl on there into a product I fucked over 50 different women in a 6 month period and had my pick of the litter. Everything from top tier fitness chicks to disgusting ham beasts and all it took was a little bit of personality, a little bit of lying and a little bit of coding. Of course there are going to be some that you just won't be able to obtain but there are literally millions upon millions of women out there absolutely desperate for any cock they can acquire and all you have to do is find them. Be creative and most of all be confident. You don't have to completely create a new personality, just have confidence in whatever your hobbies are, don't be ashamed of them. Let the woman do most of the talking, do a bit of research on the woman, find out what she likes, do a bit of research on what she likes and pretend to have a basic beginner level knowledge of her hobbies. She will be thrilled to school you in what she likes and that will lead to you fucking her. It's not complicated guys.