>>12723352If they love OP, they'll tell him to stop being a fucking retard who spends too much time online and not enough time out in the real world.
In the real world: people will hold doors, put back their grocery carts, say please/thank you, regardless of how much (or how little) of a queer you are. The vast majority of people are decent human beings that don't go around judging you - and even if they did, it's not worth risking a confrontation, adrenaline rush, etc, just to be an asshole to random people in public because they dress or talk differently
But if you spend enough time online, surrounded by anonymous faggots, they will convince you the world is out to get you - and the only way to get back at society is by chopping up your genitals and dressing like a retard. Newsflash pal: no amount of surgeries and pills are going to make you worthy of being on a magazine cover or starring in a movie. And if that isn't your goal, then what the fuck is the point?
"Passing"? "Passing" does about as much good as faking your resume, getting hired - and then shitting the bed the first time you're called on to do an important task. 99% of the time a person who takes off your underpants and realizes you're a fucking freak, they're going to spaz on you and leave you on the spot.
Transexuals will never be acceptable to anything other than flaming homosexuals. Lesbians find male transsexuals repulsive, post- and pre-op; they're just afraid of the consequences of saying it out loud. If you are a male transsexual, your best bet is to just announce that you are a homosexual and go from there. It's the only honest thing to do.
TLDR: Your family will rightfully reject you if you announce you have been brainwashed, because you will have confirmed your intention to become a dishonest person and sexual deviant