>>13374651it's kind of cliche advice, but the best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. the second best time is right now.
you haven't always been fat and depressed. i don't know if you have disabilities or anything, but you were once a little baby with your whole life ahead of you.
yes, some of us have better genetics than others. but there's also how you take care of yourself and having some desire to get something from the world.
when you were a baby and a kid, someone expended an enormous amount of time, effort, and money to take care of you. they bought you toys and fed you when you cried. they changed your diaper a dozen times a day. they fussed over you and their eyes lit up when you first smiled, and laughed, took your first step.
you probably don't have kids so you probably can't conceptualize this, but please realize your care was an immense undertaking. unless you had monster abuser parents, they sacrificed their comfort and happiness for yours on thousands of occasions.
and i mean actual abusers, not the pussy talk on reddit where their parents forced them to go to church or never said they were proud of them. even parents who didn't do the best job went through so much to keep you alive.
so maybe you're going to say that no one cares about you, but they definitely cared about that baby. and then something happened along the way that obviously made you stop caring about yourself.
i don't know what your relationship is like right now with your parents (or whoever raised you), but they did not want you to turn out this way.
and i'm not talking about you being fat, or not having a good job, or being a recluse. they didn't want you to turn into someone that doesn't care about himself and doesn't care about his life and doesn't care about his future.
okay, maybe you'll never fuck madi wrenkowski or jazmin allure like the louisiana hyperchad everyone's going on about in this thread. but you can make a better life for yourself.
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