>>14731286it wasn't until i befriended an attractive, successful, go-getter Type A finance sis that i realized that 95% of what a girl's thoughts are are of what others think of them. and this leads girls to look toward others to be a solid emotional foundation for them. because girls, even the hot and successful ones, typically all hate themselves immensely, and will really want their relationships with others to be life-affirming and proof that they have value as a person and woman.
it would not surprise me that this woman truly was in love with vince, especially when he was telling her he loved her despite it all being manipulative by him. even the threesomes and freaky shit, her mindset was 'I'll do it for him because i love him and he loves me'. The aforementioned finance sis who was always put together, composed, and mindful, was once crying hysterically to me and threatening to cut herself, all because she worked up her courage to send me a nude of her, and i told her i didn't want that unless we dated and i didn't want to date her.
basically, i believe her, because her really thinking vince loved her and being desperate for his love and that he made her feel special and his emotional blackmail are all 100% in line with how women think and act. there's nobody less secure with themselves than a woman who just wants to feel love.
