>>15166087Field too long, basically everyone assumes things about certain groups of people because of things they've seen them do or actually have been through with said group of people, usually, for example OP's post, those said things creates hate and traumatizes whoever's the victim, and everybody looks at themselves as the victim, because fact is trying to understand somebody else's side of the story is not satisfying at all and the chance of that traumatizing experience happening again kills whatever wish you have of maybe reconsidering your views on that certain group of people you assume things about by just looking at someone with similarities to that group of people, take me for example, people assume I'm a weirdo, stay home playing games all day and am a virgin, now they would only not hate me for thinking I am this way if they have the same lifestyle and ways of being as I do, or if they haven't been through enough shit with their idea of who I am to think there's no chance I'm not that bad, maybe he's different all that, then guess what they get to know me bam turns out I am that bad, then a certain point comes where people are done trying to be hopeful because being hopeful ended up hurting them in many ways and instead they'll become hateful (assholes) because at the end of the day it's way more satisfying and also protects you from getting hurt again, it barely ever comes from a good place to instantly judge people unless you relate to them, hence why there's all kinds of groups of people out there and they always do this same thing exactly, put others' lifestyle down to feel better about their own and convince themselves their way is the right way of living, hence why there's always conflict and deep down, humans are all assholes no exceptions, we all are the same way but act differently about it, and that's not an opinion that, is just a sad fucked up fact of life
