I did BJJ for a couple of years in my 20s (before I realized how gay it was and quit), and let me tell you that the BIGGEST fucking f*ggots ever are the mid-life crisis guys who take up jiu-jitsu in their late 30/40s and make it their entire identity. The gym owners look at them as marks to be fleeced, because they have disposable income and will spend it endlessly on gear and tournaments and private lessons. Everyone hates them and clowns them behind their back. Nothing is especially more embarassing than when a dude who’s been training for like 6 months starts wearing exclusively BJJ “lifestyle” clothing with cringe slogans about armbaring people and shit. I guarantee that everyone at Mox’s gym thinks he’s the biggest fucking loser