>>15280768I'm pretty left myself and I agree.
The tip off is that she's pushed a very carefully crafted narrative. She's forty but, I'm sorry, that's an old picture she put out there after carefully deleting current ones. She did it to try to play the sympathy card and that right there is a big fucking red flag.
It's obvious what happened. Vince met this gal and was probably thrilled to have a young piece of ass and she probably played into it. Told him she's into humiliation play. The texts he sent her are obviously part of that -- not always reflective of things he was actually doing but rather often stuff he *said* he was doing just to humiliate her because that's what she said she wanted.
But that's the thing about a Dom/sub relationship. From the outside it can look *really fucking bad*, especially if the once-sub starts acting like she never consented to any of it because she wanted a payout.
I mean, sure, it's possible she's a victim in all this but there are a lot of questions that need to be answered before I'm buying it.