>>15309846This is the thing. You make yourself known, politely talk to them and try to look for signs and either there's signs or they politely tell that they disagree about your intentions and then you can back away without losing your face because it was just a polite interaction about something that totally wasn't about facefucking her.
Or I mean that's how I do it. If you say that you really just want to compliment her hat because it looks so nice on her and she grabs your hand she probably wants to fuck.