>>15328235It's more complicated than that and is largely tied to class/location. I don't blame a Black man from Memphis or Chicago for not wanting to date Black women, look how they act in those areas. Even if you find one who can act right, there's a high probability friends/cousins are complete headcases who will undermine your relationship at every turn.
But if you're Black from Corpus Christie or Cedar Rapids, without gangs, without a lot of crime and drug/sex trafficking, if you can't find a Black woman to date there then you're the problem.