>>15614049never had it. I used to go in for soup regularly, and one time I was in a really shitty place in life and it was a shitty rainy cold day so I decided to treat myself to soup AND a coffee. When the girl behind the counter told me how much it was gonna cost, I realised I was spending more than I was comfortable with so I said forget the coffee. Later, she brings over a coffee for me and I was really embarassed but also very touched by her small act of kindness on this shitty day when I was at my lowest and thanked her profusely. As I was leaving I went up to thank her one more time, she said "don't worry lovey, I hope you have a wonderful christmas" and reached bother hands out. I reached mine out and she gently carressed them and gave me a smile and it was honestly the first time in years a woman has given me any sort of affection. I went home and cried about it.