>>15672677They're abusers themselves. Just not in a brute force physical violence type of way.
They break you down mentally, belittle you when you're still a kid, beg for dibs but never show up on time, insist on going out tomorrow but refuse to reply to confirm time and location for 3-6 months, shit like that.
Cluster B personality disorders are fucked up in a myriad of ways, and narcissism is unfortunately the most prevalent one of them.