>>17368875Correct, same reason they hate video games.
>>17368951Correct, this is also why it behooves one to remember that if you confide in a woman your weaknesses, secrets, and fears, she will 100% use them against you if it ever benefits her to do so.
>>17369345"Trust not a woman when she weeps, for it is her nature to weep when she wants her will."
On principle, you need to deny her access to your phone; this is a shit test, and you're failing it. So she'll get upset, so what? Let her get upset, then give zero fucks, and make no secret about the lack of fucks which you give. Most men are weak, and women tend to learn very early in life that voicing displeasure, or shedding a few tears = a decisive victory over a weak man's resolve 99% of the time. Therefore, you need to not fold whenever your girl throws a tantrum, not only because you want to establish and control the frame of the relationship, so the relationship is on your terms, with her seeking your approval, without you reinforcing undesirable behavior with her desired outcome, but because she'll respect you for it.
It's often been observed and acknowledged that women like assholes, and it's true, but it's also an oversimplification which misses the forest for the trees; the truth is women are attracted to men that aren't easily controlled, and when you no-sell their bullshit, when you make it clear that you're not afraid to show them the door, when you make it clear their continued presence in your life is conditional upon them being a complement to said life, and not the focus of it, it makes them absolutely feral for you; their brains don't know how to process a man who doesn't give a shit about their all-important and infallible fee fees, so they default to doing anything and everything in pursuit of your validation.
Sharing this for you, and any man who needs to see this. Lift weights, get money, be a bit of a dick; success with women and in life is really that simple.
