>>17875781As someone who believes in life beginning at conception, things like ectopic pregnancies and spontaneous miscarriages are so common that you couldn't have the emotional energy to grieve them all--which isn't even going in to how they wouldn't have been viable anyway.
And just because they were alive, doesn't mean that you have to feel the full weight of them always. Sometimes you need to insulate yourself; like, you can't go on every single day feeling down about the children and women dying in war-torn countries every day.
It's sad, but this shit happens all the time.