>>18813730You can become a good speaker, but it's next to impossible to become like Cornette. They say children develop major social skills by the time they are 3 years old, and children who lag behind at this point end up never catching up.
A person with bad socials skills interacts with others oblivious to how others perceive them or their activity.
A person with good social skills is constantly monitoring and reacting to cues from others and using their experience to estimate how others feel or will react. They are basically trying to go off a script, which is why they are repulsed by non-social or 'different' people and find them 'weird' as it frightens their worldview and confidence / comfort.
A person with great social skills is constantly taking in their surroundings and those they are speaking to almost subconsciously and just living in the moment naturally engaging well with others. They also get along well with non-social or different people as they can interact with and understand them as well, and often get said people to open up while also making sure they respect each others socials bounds.
Cornette naturally takes in all sorts of information while not using any of his active conscious, freeing it up to focus on talking, quickly reacting with comments, making jokes, etc.
Normal social people have their active conscious so occupied with other things that they often lose their train of thought, stumble their words, break their body language, stop to think, etc. And you will see many seemingly charismatic people who can't actually talk without doing these things and often fucking up.
Then you have the input vs. output factor, and Cornette consumed a vast amount of media and has listened to countless people and has all of this at his disposal, with the advantage that he was examining things and dissecting things already at a young age when many are still just taking things at face value.
