>>6064433Grass is always greener. I went through this but with a girlfriend. I assume you married her for good reasons. Do you get along? How’s her personality? Cherish your wife. Most of those 8-10s won’t fulfill you emotionally like your wife does. I was forced to break things off with my ex because of her dangerous temper that got to be too much. I’ve had my fun since then (though not as much as I’d like, I find it difficult to meet girls because I never know where to find them) but I’d give anything to have my ex back - even though I know it’s for the better I don’t.
Try to get her into shape anon. Mold her into what you want, but with love. Tread very carefully though because me doing this with my ex was kind of what eventually set off the actual breakup. Women don’t like being implicitly told they’re overweight, and even so much as lovingly encouraging weight loss / exercise can set them off.