>>6968032>>6968363Go to a convention she is going to. Give her the story and you've done something memorable and left an impression.
Then you do this. You give her a personal check for one or two hundred bucks, and you put your social media handle or contact on it and let her know you'd be interested in buying something autographed from her.
This does a couple things. By writing her a check with your contact, it lessens her guard and puts you in business mode and incentivizes her to reach out to you. However if she doesnt and forgets about it its a check and you wont be out the money. Its a win win!