>>7388811Women who have seen a lot of violence want to be with a guy who is violent but generally keeps it under control. They foresee, based on past experiences, a real possibility that if they are with a guy who does not have an explosive temper that can fight someone who has both of those qualities will beat the fuck out of their man and then hurt them. Whether its someone getting too close at a party or being mugged or their dad getting drunk and showing up at the house, women who have been in those situations have enormous insecurity about these things.
They also really do not seem to understand how guns work. Women have a hard time grasping the abstraction that even Brock Lesnar is going to get killed by a child if the kid puts a few 9mms in his upper torso. Even if you teach them to shoot and get them into the habit of carrying they never really grasp that they will have a statistically overwhelming chance of deterring an attacker by just drawing down.
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