The problem is guys try too hard.
Stop chasing women, stop going out with the intention of getting laid, stop right swiping on every whore on every dating app.
Just have a life. Have a job you go to, go to the gym, have hobbies that have you around other people, make male friends, go to parties, hang out with women, go to church, go to events, play sports etc. As cliche as it sounds, just live life and be happy.
If you are social, positive and friendly women will be naturally drawn to you. You'll also have more context to interact and feel comfortable with them.
Just 'let go' of trying to have sex so desperately. Instead, focus on enriching your life, being productive and happy whilst being around more people.
