Well, desu the whole situation with Akki and Mei sickens my stomach every time I see them interact so, I kinda get it. Not because I think I would have a shot with her. I know that's impossible. But, don't rub it in my face and then expect me to ever buy any of her merch or get invested in her wrestling. I am keenly aware that most Joshi wrestlers have boyfriends or husbands and some even have children. It would be weird if they didn't. Just be thoughtful enough not to be so blatant about it that I can't achieve a good mental connection with them which allows me to invest myself in them. It's good business for them at the very least. Once that culture goes away in Japan, the wrestlers will be no more important to anyone than western wrestlers are today.