>>5333358It's funny, because from what I've seen Husbando wars never usually happen when it comes to female MCs. The Fire Emblem quest for instance was surprisingly chill and non-spergy when pursuring Ashe, though I guess it's still not completely set-in-stone yet.
But generally yeah your advice is pretty solid. I still get PTSD Vietnam Flashbacks when it comes to /qst/ romance thanks to that one Shinji quest. Never again.