>>5793051Should you tell Calia about you and Jandice? About what happened in the cabin and how she is now your lover? Would you do that due to Calia telling you to be happy and not let her drag you down? Or should you keep that as a secret from Calia as well to not hurt her? It was difficult and due to this you had pushed writing this letter forward and forward past your birthday.
You had a good feeling, your step was light. The time spent with Jandice, even if it was brief, made you feel better, like this heavy stone had fallen off your back. You had fun with Jandice, simple as that. Maybe it was better for you to call it quits, or at least have a pause with Calia and see where things go first? If she lacked the willpower to end the relationship, did she want to do it? Would you have the willpower to do it for her? You weren't sure as the uncertainty creeped into you as well. You loved Calia, at least it felt like it, but maybe it was just your mind convincing yourself that being the case. Your mind trying to keep a hopeless long distance relationship alive? What should you tell her if you loved her? Would avoiding hurting her be the best course of action and not tell her anything?
You had no idea what to write, you had no idea how you should feel, but there should be a reply of some sort. If not just to acknowledge her words and wish for everything to become better and for her to heal.
>Tell Calia everything. What happened in the cabin and that Jandice is now your lover.>Give her the truth that Jandice has entered your life, but don't give her the details.>Calia should know that you have found someone, someone that makes you happy. Leave it at that.>She shouldn't learn about Jandice. This relationship is supposed to be a secret and you don't want to give Calia any extra concern. Just acknowledge what she wrote to you.>Tell Calia that if she lacks the willpower to end the relationship and break-up with you, then you will make the decision for her. Break-up with Calia Menethil.>Have Calia know that if she is uncertain about all this, then she should concentrate on getting healthy first. Put your relationship with her on hold and reevaluate it when you two can meet the next time.>Even if she is uncertain, you aren't. Have the relationship be on hold as long as it will take for her to get healthy. Then you can continue this.>You love Calia, those feelings are true. You have no intention to break-up with her and you know she will get healthy sooner than later.Tone of the letter in bullet point form:
>Write inQM: Relationship vote, let's get this out of the way. Please vote on both, let's see if there is a change. And if you have write in ideas on what to tell her, give them to me in bullet points. I am not going to write the full letter here, but with bullet points I can get the gist of what Alric wants to tell her out.
