>>6162196>If her shoulders hurt, then you could massage them, if she liked. You were good at that, you were told- you were both alone, weren’t you? No need to comment on why it’d be needed.>Other: Regardless of whether she accepts or not give her the advice: It never is wrong to consider it, however there are weights worth bearing. If she cannot break away from the weight then it'll become necessary to share it with those who are willing help. Sometimes, true strength is not finding the ability to do it all on one's own, but having the wisdom to determine who can be trusted to be strong with you and help carry the load.
However, working on yourself and determining what you truly want in life is a big part of that too. Can't even start asking for help if you don't really know what you want help doing.