>>6316280We're talking about a spinner like this, m8, not the gigantic things that look like chewtoys that the kids are using. Nobody actually notices when you're spinning one of these inside your pocket.
And the idea is you use it to help yourself listen to people, not "pay attention to that instead". If you don't have problems with fidgeting, you won't fully relate, but sometimes people need physical stimulation to be able to achieve mental stimulation. Their body can't focus unless it's also physically engaged. (Usually picking at their nails or clicking at a pen, etc.) This is perfect for that sort of person.