>>8211474Well, yes, comics are largely about idealization in the end. I understand that feeling of wanting escapism and seeing the best, coolest versions possible of everything and everyone. I think where we run into issues is how they are presented. While there are surely women who like to drool over muscles, there is a lot of evidence out there that most of them are not looking for the same things men are. Have you heard the term "male power fantasy?" Most American comic heroes fall under this banner. They cater to what men aspire to be, not necessarily what appeals to most women. This comparison gets used a lot, but it's a good one: you can see here how the same man is presented to both men and women. One is about strength, aggression, and bulging muscles. The other is still the same muscular dude, but clean, handsome, welcoming. You know he's still got those muscles under that sweater, but they're ancillary to his charm. The message is clear.
When one gender writes and draws virtually the entire comics universe, everything can be made to cater to their desires, whether for power or for sex. That's the imbalance I was speaking of. Either way, thank you for having a civil discussion with me.