Chad here, if you want any advice on how to get laid without paying for it ask away. I can even recommend cologne if you need any it's really not that hard. Dressing not shit is the first step. If you are ULTRA fat I can't help you. I doubt you could penetrate with your cock anyway so go take daily 5km walks or something. If you are just fat it literally doesn't matter. 50% of all humanity is female and they feel the same way you do.
That being said getting laid isn't everything and I learned it on the hard tour. What you really want is a stable relationship and a family. The sooner the better. 50 years ago having a family was basically a sign that everything is ok with you and that you are a men and not some mentally ill weirdo. Finding the right girl is way harder than getting laid. Especially in our times. Not that rarely I see a mentally ill girl ruin peoples lives. So being carful and not putting your dick into crazy is an ABSOLUTE MUST. That being said you should know what you want and maybe not have too high standards since pretty girls are either roasties most of the times or will make you go crazy. As our own boy said
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qh9ZZgDqzAgGetting laid and becoming happy are two different things so I recommend you get a hooker to get it over with and start looking to create a family instead....and don't get addicted to hookers either. It's barely worth the money. Also don't use tinder. Go outside. Take up a hobby or just take walks and greet people while passing by or something. Do not be a shut in. Being a shut in is hell.