>>9680434Not that anon, but I'm so tired of this argument. Fetishization is real, sure -- it's just that some people literally cannot draw a line between "someone finds this appealing" and "this personally hurts me in a direct and measurable fashion."
It literally hurts no one if Joe Rando rubs one out to women consensually making out, if Fu Joshi flicks the bean to the thought of some Kpop boys holding hands, or whatever. Yeah, bad things happen in the world -- sex trafficking for pornography, abuse in the idol industry, but this isn't about any of that. Thought crimes aren't real, and thinking "it's hot when a guy gets dicked/a woman eats ass/whatever" isn't even a crime at all. The prudishness that Sexy Baaad Horny Eeeevillll Gay Shit Can Only Be uwu pure Or It's Problematicccc is so reductive that it's embarrassing for everyone involved.