>>10035891>I'd be asking myself what has caused women to stay away from me for such a long time and work on rectifying thatNot that guy, but I checked all the boxes:
[x] Job
[x] graduated college
[x] good relationship with my family
[x]social and I do not spend any time on video games
[x]I dont talk about myself and have sincere interest in other people im talking to
[x] I have an apartment and I keep it clean, and I have plans to buy a house
Yet I have been single for over 5 years. Its not as easy as "FIX YOUR SHIT BRAH AND YOU WILL GET KNOCKS ON YOUR DOOR". I'm not saying there are not guys out there that are fuck ups and need to fix there shit, but it pisses me off when I see THOSE guys with girlfriends and I'm avoided like the plague.
Rant off. OP, my advice would be to not unveil your collection to her all at once, listen to what she has to say about it when she sees some if it, and dont go into full defense mode. Also tell her your female toys are not a sign that you objectify women, and that you appreciate the female body in a beauty sense and not in a pornographic sense.