>>10296217>I understand how my point was muddled when I was trying to make the opposite point: in my experience, guys "get" the girl, go "well, that's accomplished" and assume that she'll be loyal forever and that no more work needs to be put in, when it's the exact opposite. I literally just saw it happen with my friend, fucking up a nice, nerdy relationship because he posed her and put her on the shelf and was done with her, metaphorically speaking, and just assumed he could take her down and play with her when he wanted.I don't know. Rationally I know you have to keep courting a woman. As you say, you see men who think the wedding is the end game and they can just fuck off and do whatever and the woman will just be cool with that, but surprise, surprise, she eventually leaves him because he stopped "dating" her.
But you know, I've seen some women are just as happy as can be about that shit. Woman plans all the dates and vacations and dude just gives her the credit card. In some instances the woman even pays for it all and the guy is a deadbeat.
You can make yourself sick worrying about this shit, but at the end of the day, there are hot women out there, taking care of an ugly piece of shit with no job and she'll never leave him.
If a woman wants to leave you, she will. She'll just make up some shit that makes her look good to her friends and split. If she wants to stay, you can quit your job, cuss her, hit her, probably even actually walk into the kitchen and shit in the sink. Do whatever vile thing you can think of, and she'll stay.
We don't have as much control over shit as we think. Be the best guy you can be for you, keep treating your woman, and anything past that is locked away in her head and you have no control over it.
