>>6796957Did i mention I'm a spaghetti sprayer? I can come off as brash and arrogant with strangers but as soon as a girl starts flirting with me, i stop thinking and my mouth starts streaming raw words and stammer when i run out of them.
Like i said, girls are more willing to overlook negative features if you're attractive, so it's rare that anyone is ever insulted or finds me ridiculous enough to ditch me.
I'm open enough with my hobbies that... well, it's loser-ish that you don't share your hobbies with anyone when/if it comes up. Be confidant about yourself and your likes, just don't be overbearing.
Also, sharing a hobby isn't as cool as people want to believe. It only works if they're less into it than you.
I pretty much only take in girls that show interest in me. Let them do all the hard work to show that they're interested and just ask them out from there.
Being older and wiser doesn't make seeking relationships any easier, especially if you have anxiety problems.
Girls (and people in general) under 24 are pretty shit. They don't know what they want and come off as way too clingy... but that's my basic pool that i draw from. Pretty rare to find a girl in their late 20s or my age who isn't taken or has major problems.
Dating sites are shit. I'm old enough to still think that they're for desperate people and this painted all my tries with people on them... all 3 of those tries.
BTW, i was in a relationship for 10 years, so this is why I'm basically alone in my late 30s.
