>>6843681it might interest you to know that some people tend to spend more than their means allow. Some of those people that are taking "extravagant vacations" are likely paying for that vacation with a credit card, i.e. money they don't have.
Not everyone, obviously, but there are plenty of couples that do this. Because "they need a break from the normal" or they want to be "adventurous". nevermind the fact that the interest alone for that two week trip will be following them for YEARS.
You and your wife are being smart. Some day, you two WILL reach a point where you can afford some leisure and a bit of luxury, too. Don't rush it, and Don't let jealousy consume you. It's not healthy