What are the odds they sold loaded dice to people who caught on and wanted to do the same thing with a little side hustle? Probably went to your wives quietly to tell them the situation. Your in massive debt and things are looking grim. You are unable to tell your wife because your terrified of making her more worried then you are and having nobody stable and normal to help deal with the stress. Then you get a talk or a letter saying things are looking your way and your wife has been acting a bit differently. That's all I gotta say.