>>8530982>suggests that you're not really a manletAccording to /fit/ standards, 1,75m is kinda manlet-tier. I could pretty much forget looking for Amazons
>It smells like that kind of disingenuous self-deprecation that leads attractive people to go "awww shucks guys, I mean, I think I'm pretty average looking honestly."I hate that shit and if my comments came over like that, then damn. I'm more of the "I don't give a shit if I look like a 6 because I feel like an 8" type of person without being in-your-face irl about it
>It's nice that confidence seems to work out so well for youIt doesn't necessarily but I try to be confident whenever I can. I just like making people happy so I try to be outgoing and just overall positive.
>and think that everyone should be able to have the same results as you if they just go out there loud and proudThat wasn't what I was trying to say. I'm saying that people should at least try to improve. As I said before, we all have insecurities. One can handle them better, others cannot. Some can improve by a lot if they try, for others it takes lots and lots of effort. What I AM saying however is that everyone should at least try to self-improve instead of being lazy or accepting an unsatisfying life
>just be aware that your confidence is sitting on a huge lump of positive self-esteem that can come from being fit and "halfway decent looking."My confidence stems from the fact that I have always been nice to people and that people have shown me gratitude through friendships. Being fit came a LOT later and just helped marginally. You could say it was just intrinsic motivation because I've seen lots of shit in the past
>>8531080Maybe you should try looking up another expert on your issue. There's lots of shitty and shady doctors out there who give crappy diagnoses
>>8531088Fuck me for my poor wording. I wanted to say that it probably helps when I say that. I don't intend to come off as cool with comments like that
