>>52523850I guess this reaction to Arven makes sense if you've never lost someone close only to have your friends pull you trough the fallout.
When my grandmother--who raised me--died my friends would distract the fuck out of me. The night after she died I stayed over at my best friend's house and he had gathered all the lads to play Smash Melee together. The day after we all got together to watch some movies and stuff, I watched Digimon: The Movie for the first time then. And the day after that the father of another friend(Who had always like me and always called me "A good egg") organized a BBQ at his place for us and then fucked off himself to the pub to leave us alone.
I had a blast during these days, and I also felt immense guilt tha I was. I still cried at night when I was alone in the guest room, but I also knew that my boys had my back, which was nice.
Anyway, thanks for listening to my Ted Talk.
