>TQ I think I'd be much like >>55968502 - just trying to look after him and show him a bit of affection that has likely hasn't had in years. Would absolutely rub those shoulders and cook him some good meals to get a bit of weight on him.And I'd need to repair that coat, since I know he'd never accept a new one.
Just telling him he is loved and valued and is more than just "an outsider"