>>17731471>If I see girl or anyone playing a game, I don't simply walk up to them and say, "what'cha playin'" I wouldn't like it if someone did it to me while I was focusing on my game, if anything, I wouldn't talk about games if the person I'm talking to brings it up.What if you just silently watch the person playing and try to show interest, but say nothing afterwards unless the person acknowledges you? That's usually how I go. Just the fact that you're watching and the other person notices interest will be enough if they do care, while if they didn't care, saying 'hi' or approaching them in any way wouldn't have broken the ice in the first place.
I take that approach because usually I'm not that good at starting socialization and I'm aware of it, so I let the other person start it with a little hint, but without seeming too awkward or like a fucking stalker. If I notice they are not interested, I will already try to not even look at what they're playing in the first place.