>>32622608No one is comfortable in the idea of being alone, people are just afraid that will be their destiny based on whatever factors are going on in their life.
You don't have to act like you need to fix other people's lives and taking on this mindset isn't helping. There are no easy answers nor do generalized ideas you think are solutions are necessarily solutions. The idea that people need to change their attitude for good things to happen is also bullshit too. Not that behavior isn't a factor to how one is received, just the idea it has a cause-effect relationship to quality of life is the part that's bullshit.
If you want to help people, teach them how to love themselves and take care of themselves rather than setting these vague goalposts based on societal expectations and/or milestones you associate with being successful and the lack of fulfilling them with a person's worth. Life is a bit more complicated than how you're brushing shit off because either things don't come as easy for others based on a system of things beyond their control or they just didn't have the kind of support system you did.
Life isn't some game where some people didn't follow the FAQ correctly. Shit always differs for everybody.
