>>56979553No.
Dating and Romance systems like in Skyrim and Dragon Age and Mass Effect turn it into a checklist that makes it lose its intrinsic value.
For Life Sims like Harvest Moon and The Sims and Stardew Valley, it works fine. Those games are all about social ties between the Player Character and the in-game characters.
If you really want romance in a game then make it part of the cutscenes and story. And that can piss people off, so y'know, tread carefully.