>>56420305Depending on how serious you want it to be if it's a relationship, you'd go on about it differently. If you want a relationship to be at least somewhat serious, then my point stands and you can't just "settle". There's resentment if one part of the relationship is obviously settling.
You said in your previous post you already got good attractiveness scores on this site I've never heard of, which means people on average don't even consider you unattractive. I think it's your attitude towards all of it that's ruining your chances, not your physical appearance. You haven't replied to my question about what you usually do in your life, or how/how much you interact with people, so I can't speculate more on my own.
>>56420333>since it now seems like you have a complex and are compensating, which turns women off even more.This is true.
You know how most guys say they don't like girls who put on too much make up, or who get plastic surgery and bullshit like that? It's because they look like they're trying hard to impress someone. Same for guys who get similarly obsessed with their appearance. With people like these, no reassurance, no loving relationship will be enough to give them confidence, because the issue comes from within.
If you think you're unattractive, you'll still think you're unattractive after losing your virginity. Maybe you'll even think you didn't deserve the sex or the relationship, even if you did your best. If you start obsessing over your appearance, you'll keep finding things you need to "tweak", and you'll never be satisfied. Cut that shit out, you don't need that. Find something to do that makes you feel good by yourself first, find something you enjoy doing. Find something you enjoy talking about, and you'll already have a good conversation topic. Try out doing different shit. You're not allowed to give up!
Also, Kiki.
