>>47815174I'm a newly 30 oldfag from way back, I mostly lurk but I thought I could share some insight.
Disability doesn't mean much if you put time into your appearance. I've never had a hard time finding dates, it's just mutual interests that's the hard part. I've always dated normies after dating an autist girl who was into Pokémon once; it was hell. Never again. I never really date "IN" the fandom, but I chalk that up to me disliking most and having high standards.