>>41635897aesthetics are mostly secondary really. gays often end up gay because they're molested as children, or they have weak or absent fathers and identify with the feminine as a source of strength which is expressed in their choices of sexual roles, and so on. it's why the gay community has always had this age-based hierarchy logic running through it, wherein young gay men tend to bottom for older gay men and as they get older switch into the other situation and so on and so forth. this is literally how the gay community sustains itself
>>41635940the lines are kind of blurry there but you're not strictly wrong, since twink aesthetics are an evocation of the pederast ideal (which has existed forever, incidentally, modern gay movements didn't develop this out of air)