>>37588389You're just projecting your own insecurities on others people's fantasies. If you have that kind of problem wherein you can't control your own kinks to the point you obsess with them then that's your flawed perspective. And it's a bad assumption to think everybody will struggle on the same matter as you do, buddy.
Regardless of your intentions, which are blatanly patronazing , I hope you have understand that a kink doesn't define a person (and much worse a single post)