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Xerneas and Yveltal never seemed to "rule" over life and death so much as they are protectors/avatars of it.
They're assuredly powerful, and can do some things with those powers (Xerneas seems to be able to grant "life force", or can reinvigorate things, Yveltal is good at destruction) but I never got the notion that they are literally life and death personified