>>47245940Consider that lying into someone's bed is tantamount to rape in western culture, and men tend to be the more aggressive sex and more likely to respond to the feeling of violation with violence. I want you to focus on that word:
>violationUnknowingly sleeping with someone who used to be a man will make many men feel violated, and those feelings are valid. Your comparisons to ethnicity are absolutely asinine, as it's not even close to the same thing.
Honesty is the best policy in entering into any kind of relationship, whether it be strictly sexual or romantic. They have a right to know and deliberately withholding that fact is to be deliberately deceptive. It does NOT warrant violence, and the people who do retaliate with violence are wrong for it, but you are still a shitty person for not being forward with the truth.
