>>56305433moderation systems tend to be biased and corrupt on the internet, which is why finding a place that works for you typically revolves around finding a moderation system that is biased in your favor.
Since you seem to be in favor of moderate-to-high moderation and against toxic behavior, I would again recommend partially compromising your desire for anonymity and using social media under an alias, as it will allow you to have more civil discussions with others about your favorite topics with people attempting to derail or demean due to their high moderation that favors non-toxic behavior.