>>14219856Uh.
>>14219697 here. Again.
Let me just be clear with this because it annoys the shit out of me. The whole us vs them mentality of bara / nonbara / twinks / nontwinks is absolute bullshit and is the primary reason why I don't involve myself with that whole online subculture outside of getting some semidecent stroke material.
In real life, big muscles and a heavy gut are a plus, but so is good hygiene and a decent personality, and personally I greatly prefer the latter over the former, as do most of the men I know. Don't get so caught up in the notion that your body needs to fit some sort of standard to get into a relationship. That shit only really applies to Grindr fucks. Odds are, that cutey silent giant working as the local barista will be into you regardless of how big or small you are so long as you aren't a dick.
Just my 2c.
'Normal'-looking guys tend to make some of the best and kinkiest lays ever. 