>>56699141You're both correct. The reality is you need to be physically desirable to get your foot in the door, so to speak. But once you're in, personality is what matters most. Looks are important in the short term (one night stands, etc), but personality is what makes people want to stick around with you after the sex is over. Ugly people get no attention, hot people get too much, and it becomes hard to filter out people who like you for your character, vs people who like you bevause you're hot.
None of this matters to me because unfortunately my Goodra wife is not real.